Terri Arnold

Terri Arnold, 63, passed away peacefully on November 2, 2025, at Williamson Medical Center in Franklin, Tennessee, surrounded by her loved ones. She was born on November 5, 1961, in Pomona, California, to Sam and Sue Tolfa.

Terri’s radiant smile, quick wit, and lively sense of humor could light up any room. Known as a social butterfly, she had an effortless way of connecting with people and making everyone feel special. She was sweet, spirited, and always up for a good time—especially if it involved a perfectly made dirty martini.

A true adventurer at heart, Terri loved to travel and had a deep appreciation for the beauty of the world. She found peace and joy in watching sunsets and visiting her favorite destinations, especially the tropical beaches of Hawaii and the Caribbean, as well as the serene California side of Lake Tahoe. She also had a deep love for dogs and was happiest when surrounded by her furry companions.

Once an avid gym-goer and runner, Terri approached life with energy and enthusiasm. She shared a close, cherished bond with her mother, Sue, and her family fondly knew her as “Barm,” a name spoken with love and laughter.

Terri was married for 36 wonderful years to her husband, Jerry Arnold. Their marriage was filled with humor and devotion, highlighted by their long-running inside joke—Terri’s playful reminder, “You’re not the boss of me.” She is also survived by her beloved son, Jarrod Arnold, and his family, who brought immense joy to her life.

She is preceded in death by her father: Sam Tolfa.

A celebration of life will be held at Williams Funeral Home on November 15, 2025 at 12 pm with the family recieving friends one hour prior to service time.

In leui of flowers, family asks that donations be made to Tennessee Oncology Center. 

Terri’s zest for life, her laughter, and her unwavering warmth will be deeply missed but forever remembered by all who were fortunate to know her.